The star basketball player is accused of sexual assault, and the world is shocked. This decision could impact his whole life and yet he continues to play basketball, and no one denies him this. Is something familiar and wrong with this picture? Kobe Bryant, star player and endorser of goods raped a girl back in the summer of 2003. He could get life in prison, yet he still is the star of the Lakers, still has kids wearing his jerseys, and still gets praise for his playing abilities. Do I think this is right? No. It doesn't matter what the girl's previous medical history is. She has had to go into hiding and this whole thing is hurting her psyche. Yes, some people yell rape even when nothing occurred. That takes away from true victims. Victims do not like coming forward because they don't want to be ridiculed and shamed. It is not the victim's fault, and this needs to be pounded into people's heads so that justice is served.
We have our own Kobe Bryant right here in Wisconsin. That's right, get in line to watch this phenom dunk! Watch him evade his court case! This story hasn't been that big, it did have a couple stories in the Leader Telegram and an editorial in the Spectator. When I had first read the story about Hudson's star basketball center, (we decided to take his name out of the article), I was completely dumbfounded and mad as hell. His case, in which he will eventually plead guilty to two fourth degree sexual assault charges, has been pushed back yet again so that this outstanding citizen can continue his high school basketball career. His mother pleaded with the judge because if the case were brought to court now; he would be kicked off the basketball team and miss out on some college scholarships that he truly deserves. Here is part of the letter she wrote to persuade the judge to delay the case.
"In turn, this (case) will be discovered by college recruiters who will likely deny him entrance into their college and/or their athletic programs," the letter said.
This unnamed person would not receive any scholarships, and his ability to pursue something that he is successful at will be taken from him, his mother wrote.
"With a plea in January, we will be punishing [him] in an ongoing way that does not seem commensurate with the alleged crime. It is in everyone's best interest to help Waylon succeed and become a healthy, well-adjusted adult by allowing him to continue to do what he excels at," she wrote.
To paraphrase John Stossel of 20/20 fame, give me a f***ing break.
This kid has yet to be punished at all!! What is his mom talking about, and why doesn't she have a conscience? Obviously, when you are a parent you will try to protect your child in any way possible, but when they break the law, then maybe it's time to step back and reflect on where you went wrong. It is HER responsibility to make sure he is a "healthy, well-adjusted adult" not the rest of the world's. She failed, she's trying to cover it up, and she doesn't want to pay for his college tuition. Wow, do I feel sorry for these people.
Why should this 18 year old "man" be allowed to continue with his life when his victim can't? He passed up on those scholarships the moment he decided to assault his victim.
Are we supposed to feel sorry for this cocky basketball player because he broke the law? Um, no, last time I checked I believe the victim is suppose to get our pity. The victim, by the way, has had to switch schools. This kid is going to get a free ride to college because he can play basketball; yet he doesn't deserve a dime. I can't believe that the school is even allowing this. It's outrageous! Aren't our schools supposed to be about education? Why have sports become so important? Why do they supercede our justice system? Money. Games bring in money to the high schools, players get scholarships to the colleges, and colleges get money from the games. Is this right? Well, money makes the world go round, and there's nothing wrong with that, we live in a capitalist country and hey I'm all for that, but some things are more important than money. Criminals should not be allowed to have their cake and eat it too.
The incident happened when the victim was only 14 years old. He was charged with assaulting this girl back in December of 2002. Just a quick reminder, it's February of 2004!!!! This case has been delayed too long. I hope colleges and universities know what this kid's background is and they stay away.
Professional, college, and high school sports need to clean up their acts. We have OJ Simpson, baseball players being shot and killed, college basketball players getting shot and killed, Rae Carruth having his girlfriend and unborn child killed, THG testing, ephedrine deaths, etc. The list goes on and on.
Yes, we glamorize sports, we live and die with our favorite teams, we give players huge contracts, and some players treat it all like it's a free pass to do whatever they please, whether it's legal or not. We need a big crackdown on all the wrong things that go on in the big sports world, look at how it has affected high school sports.
Victims need closure to an awful period in their life; they should not be stuck in their own personal hell so the sports hero can lead his/her team to victory.
Let's start out small, let's get this high school kid off the court and into the court room.
-Sarah Brovan wishes the Packers were in the Super Bowl.
Liberty and Justice For All
02/01/2004
I don't fear the law, because I obey it. What a novel idea!
He brings his A game to the basketball court, but can his dream team keep him on it?
How about if we see more of this from professional athletes?
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| Jeremy - Interslice District Manager 02/01/2004 @ 05:21:08 PM |
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When did Wisconsin basketball turn into Texas football? Who gives a crap about HIGH SCHOOL basketball? Innocent until proven guilty yes, but since he's actually going to plead guilty get it done with, he needs to face the music. The only thing we can hope for is that since college scholarships aren't automatic that colleges will take this into consideration anyway. The sad thing is we are talking about a 16 year old groping a 14 year old. Not some vicious statutory rape. Just get it over so the real victim gets some closure. |
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| Matt - 1632 Posts 02/02/2004 @ 11:22:00 AM |
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I don't know much, if anything, about the Waylon Meyer case, so I won't comment on that at this time. I will, however, comment on your remarks about the Kobe Bryant situation. Unlike the court system, you don't have to presume him innocent (which you obviously don't). I prefer to wait until I hear the actual evidence before I decide his guilt. All I know at this time is that he confessed to committing adultery with someone he had just met. That, in my mind, is enough for me despise him as a person. I wish that would be enough for others to stop thinking of him as a saint, but unfortunately it's not. Regardless of how you feel about him, as of now, he hasn't been convicted of anything and as such, can work if he wants to. If he's found guilty, he'll end up paying, but until then, you can't punish him for something he may not have done. Again, I don't think much of Kobe Bryant, but that doesn't mean he should be punished before the outcome of his trial is decided. |
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| Matt - 1632 Posts 02/02/2004 @ 11:25:59 AM |
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First, the murderer's name is spelled Rae Carruth. Secondly, (and grossly off topic) whats the deal with the picture column being twice the size of the actual article? |
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| Jeremy - Robots don't say 'ye' 02/02/2004 @ 11:31:25 AM |
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| The question isn't is Kobe guilty or not it's why when an athlete commits a crime is the trial always pushed off until the offseason? | ||
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| Sarah - How do you use these things? 02/02/2004 @ 12:46:18 PM |
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| I wasn't really commenting on Kobe, just using him as an intro to my article, drawing comparisions and then talking about someone completely different. I was trying to be a creative writer. Yes, Kobe is innocent until proven guilty, but he just gets to go to court on his off days it seems. This Waylon kid is going to plead guilty, so I can call him guilty or whatever. Sorry about the typos, I will have to correct them at a later time. I guess another point I was trying to make is that even though Kobe may have committed a horrific crime, people still want to see and cheer him on the court. And in my mind, that's a little wrong. | ||
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| Jeremy - As Seen On The Internet 02/02/2004 @ 01:17:53 PM |
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| I don't recall saying anything about the article. | ||
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| Scott - 3093 Posts 02/02/2004 @ 03:22:02 PM |
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In reality, professional athletes aren't doing anything that other people aren't doing as far as the crimes they commit. Lots of people get raped, and lots of people are sex offenders, and I'm sure too many people end up getting off with less than they deserve. I know that this isn't really what the article is about but it's probably worth stating. But that being said, obviously when a celebrity does something bad it is much more publicized than if Joe Criminal (yeah, that's right) does something bad. ps the law isn't there for those who follow it, but for those who don't follow. |
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| Jeremy - Corduroy pillows are making headlines 02/02/2004 @ 04:19:40 PM |
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| Again the issue in this article, as I understand it, isn't so much the punishment itself, as it is that the athlete's don't ever have to go through the legal process until it is most convenient for them. | ||
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| Jon - 1000000 posts (and counting!) 02/03/2004 @ 05:52:22 AM |
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| I know it's already been said, and I don't want to "pile on" but I do feel the need to say that none of us know if Kobe raped the girl and neither does the NBA. The NBA would probably get sued if they didn't let Kobe play until the case is settled. I know that's not the main point of the article, but it is worth being examined. | ||
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| Jeremy - The cake is a lie!! 02/03/2004 @ 06:57:55 PM |
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| It isn't that the NBA did anything wrong. The issue is the legal process being put off. Damn people. | ||
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| Jon - 1497 Posts 02/03/2004 @ 07:55:49 PM |
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Well Jeremy, as Matt stated the Kobe Bryant case was not delayed because he was a star. In fact, he's missed playing because he's had to go to court. I understand the bulk of the article dealt with the Hudson kid, but that doesn't change the fact that it's a different case from the Kobe Bryant case. I agree with Sarah on the message of this article, I just think that the content regarding Kobe needed clarification. I knew a kid once who said something to the effect of, "Why don't people get it out of their heads that these aren't normal people." in regards to an athlete's trial conflicting with playing. |
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| Jeremy - Site Admin 02/03/2004 @ 08:08:18 PM |
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| Athletes are constantly having DUI's and other things put off. Of course they aren't normal people and that's just they way things are but, a high school player? We have to draw a line of who's going o get preffered treatment somewhere. | ||
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| Jon - 1497 Posts 02/04/2004 @ 07:26:49 PM |
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| So equal justice unless the defendant is really good? | ||
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| Jeremy - 5457 Posts 02/04/2004 @ 09:48:28 PM |
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I was just agreeing with you. Obviously in a perfect world we'd all be equal, but we're not. There are classes of people, that's just how it is. Athletes are placed above everyone else, and yes are even in different "ranks" amoungst themselves based on how good they are. We're just setting a dangerous precident if we let high school athletes into the "I'm above the law" club. |
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| Scott - 3093 Posts 02/05/2004 @ 08:36:24 AM |
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| Wisconsin's Boo Wade was not given the benefit of the doubt in his case. He was suspended before at the first sign of charges. Is Madison just classier and more disciplined than some places? | ||
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| Sarah - 2082 Posts 02/05/2004 @ 08:41:09 AM |
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I think so. I read about "Boo" and saw that he was suspended immediately. This kid has been playing for two years on the basketball team, he's going to plead guilty when they go to court, and he still gets to play. Hudson=not so classy. And that's not just because I went to North. Show the world that it's not alright to commit a crime and go on with life. Show discipline, show some morals, show the victims that you care. Also, I liked the fact that Kobe was "sick" for his first court date this week, nice. Oh and to go along with Andrew said, "if you have enough money you can kill your wife, and there's no such thing as 20 years to life, as long as you've got the cash to pay the Cochrane." And that's the truth. |
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| Jon - 1497 Posts 02/05/2004 @ 12:38:21 PM |
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But Jeremy, when you said "Of course they aren't normal people and that's just they way things are but, a high school player? We have to draw a line of who's going o get preffered treatment somewhere" You seem to be indicating that the problem wasn't that someone got preferential treatment, but that a high school player got preferential treatment. Is that what you're trying to say, or am I reading that incorrectly? Should some people get preferential treatment? |
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| Scott - 3093 Posts 02/05/2004 @ 02:26:08 PM |
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| Sounds like someone's quoting Good Charolette, specifically Sarah. But they make a good point. | ||
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| Jeremy - 5457 Posts 02/05/2004 @ 02:42:59 PM |
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| I dont think they should, I just know they do. | ||
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| Jeremy - 5457 Posts 02/09/2004 @ 09:37:15 PM |
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What in her article about Waylon is even slightly controversial or not true that you could get angry about? Did the incident happen? Yes Is he planning to plead guilty? Yes Is the trial pushed off only so he can play basketball? Yes I dont see how you can argue with anything in the article except with the Kobe Bryant stuff. He might be a nice guy and there are much worse things happening in the world then a 16 year old groping a 14 year old but the fact still remains he should have to go through the legal process right now. Or for that matter should have done it 2 years ago. |
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| Jeremy - 5457 Posts 02/09/2004 @ 09:42:42 PM |
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| If he was wrongfully accused why is he planning to plead guilty? | ||
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| Jeremy - I hate our freedoms 02/09/2004 @ 10:10:52 PM |
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| If you don't commit the crime you plea innocent. How does a person not have a choice? I was under the impression this was a democracy. Im not the one searching Google looking for stuff on my friend to bitch about, so I dont think youre in any position to judge my life. I care about it because high school athletes shouldnt get to skirt the law. If he is innocent then he should have gone though the process long ago, gotten it over with, and gone on with his basketball career. What does knowing him have anything to do with anything? | ||
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| Matt - Washington Bureau Chief 02/10/2004 @ 12:47:55 AM |
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| Innocent people sometimes plead guilty to lesser crimes because they don't feel they will win the trial, and they don't want to take the risk of a harsher punishment. I don't know how often this happens, or if it is the case here, but it should at least be taken into consideration. | ||
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| Jeremy - 5457 Posts 02/10/2004 @ 01:16:33 PM |
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| People shouldn't do that though. If you aren't guilty then fight for yourself. By the way, did you note that not one time in his mom's letter to the judge did she say that he didn't do it. She just thought the punishment didn't fit the crime. | ||
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| Matt - 1632 Posts 02/10/2004 @ 02:12:49 PM |
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Sometimes people get convicted of crimes they didn't commit. If an innocent person decides to take 1 year in prison instead of possibly 20 or take probation instead of any jail time, I'm not going to say they shouldn't do that. In a perfect world this would never happen and all guilty people would go to jail and all innocent people would never be charged, but it's not perfect and if someone doesn't want to risk trial, it's their choice. Again, I'm not saying that this is what's happing in this case. You just seem to be dismissing the choice of anybody who might choose to plead to something they didnt do, which I don't think is right. |
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| Jeremy - Corduroy pillows are making headlines 02/10/2004 @ 03:05:09 PM |
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| I understand the rational behind that thinking and what you are saying, I just don't think it's right for innocent people to just give in like that. | ||
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| Sarah - So's your face 02/13/2004 @ 02:01:34 PM |
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| Wow, Hudson finally took charge and suspended Meyer. My hats off to them for doing the right thing. He should've been suspended back in January after they moved back his court trial, but this still makes me happy. It somewhat shows that there is no tolerance for law breakers. Although he plans to appeal the suspension, I hope that Hudson sticks to their guns. With enough pressure from the public, perhaps justice will prevail. | ||
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| Jeremy - As Seen On The Internet 02/16/2004 @ 11:30:47 AM |
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| What has gone on and who has done what to whom isn't really the point, the fact is it should have been taken care of already. Personally I have nothing against him. He could be innocent, but since he plans on pleading guilty that's a moot point. The outrage surrounding this case isn't about the crime itself as it is that it's being delayed to play basketball. The father wouldn't be still dragging his daughter through the legal processes if this was over and done with. It was nice to get some inside info on the situation. Thanks for visiting. | ||
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| Sarah - How do you use these things? 02/19/2004 @ 08:00:04 PM |
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| So, they moved up the trial and badda bing badda boom, it's over like that. That's what suspension from basketball will get ya. A quick and speedy process when everyone agrees to it. Now obviously, I don't personally know the parties and all of the going ons that happened before and after the occurences. But, if her dad decided against pressing charges when the couple were married, and then decided to press charges after they were divorced, well then that's his perogative. It's not like he went over the statute of limitations. If he did it because they were fighting for custody of the 6 year old, well then this is a way to prove that the child may not be safe living with the mom and waylon. I read in an article that letters were read commending waylon on his improved behavior. That's great that he is becoming a better person, but the fact remains they were talking about his improved behavior. You can't commit a crime and then become a good person and then get upset when people want to press charges for the crime. Strive to be a better person, face up to your past, and continue going on the right path. It's never too late to change, and I'm glad to hear that Waylon seems to be heading in that direction. Stick to it. | ||
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| Jeremy - Interslice District Manager 04/19/2004 @ 06:09:30 PM |
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1) Learn to type in english 2) The only thing she said about him as a person was that he was cocky (which was the concensous of pretty much everyone who played against him, so take it up with them.) Her outrage was that a legal proceeding was being delayed for basketball, thats it, it's that simple, I dont see what there is to be upset with. You don't have to know the person to know that putting sports ahead of the law is wrong. Get over it already. |
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| Jeremy - I hate our freedoms 04/19/2004 @ 06:10:56 PM |
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| ps A plea agreement is admiting guilt for a lesser charge, so you have no point there. | ||






